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I’ve been poling for just over two years now. Prior to that I was quite a conservative Mum. Now having 2 years of half naked bodies part of my everyday life (or even naked – thanks nude showgirls!!), my dress code and what I post on Facebook is being deemed ‘a bit slutty and inappropriate’ by my non poling friends and fellow Mums. Should I tone it down or keep being body confident even if it means I get ‘that look’ at school pick up?
Love Slutty McSlut x
I don’t want to have an affair, but I’m a married woman and have developed a massive crush on a married man. We act like friends, no touching. I love the way it feels to see him, talk to him and I anticipate every email. Am I doing something wrong? What should I do?
During sex I sometimes fantasize about sex with my ex. I even fantasize about sex with my boyfriend’s ex (a woman)! I know my boyfriend would not appreciate my thoughts about another man, and he has been burned by a past girlfriend who cheated on him with another woman so he is uncomfortable with lesbian fantasies. How do you recommend I handle this?
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