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Welcome to The Spice with Chilli Rox – a weekly advice corner from the sassiest seductress in the pole world. If you have a burning question you would like to ask Chilli, send it in an email to:

chillirox@auspoledancersmag.com.au

 

Anyone who gets their questions published will win a free month of Polesphere access! All questions are completely confidential.

 

 

Dear Chilli,

I’ve been poling for just over two years now. Prior to that I was quite a conservative Mum. Now having 2 years of half naked bodies part of my everyday life (or even naked – thanks nude showgirls!!), my dress code and what I post on Facebook is being deemed ‘a bit slutty and inappropriate’ by my non poling friends and fellow Mums. Should I tone it down or keep being body confident even if it means I get ‘that look’ at school pick up?

Love Slutty McSlut x

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Dear Slutty McSlut,
Stay true to yourself! Don’t change your behaviour unless YOU really want to. Friends care about who you are, not what you’re wearing. Remember that old saying “those who care don’t matter and those who matter don’t care” – wear what you want, post what you want, and live your life the way you want to!
Love Chilli xx

 

 

Hi Chilli,

I don’t want to have an affair, but I’m a married woman and have developed a massive crush on a married man. We act like friends, no touching. I love the way it feels to see him, talk to him and I anticipate every email. Am I doing something wrong? What should I do?

Signed,

Fantasia

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Dear Fantasia,
You’re not doing anything wrong…… yet. Having a crush is normal, feeling attracted is normal, and getting attention from the opposite sex feels great. If it stays as a friendship and brightens your day it’s fine 🙂 But if you can feel it going in a direction that you’re not sure you want it to, maybe avoid being alone together.
Send me another letter I need to know more! Are you happily married? Is he? I have more questions for you now than you have for me!
Love Chilli xx
Should I tell him about my fantasies?
Should I tell him about my fantasies?

Dear Chilli,

During sex I sometimes fantasize about sex with my ex. I even fantasize about sex with my boyfriend’s ex (a woman)! I know my boyfriend would not appreciate my thoughts about another man, and he has been burned by a past girlfriend who cheated on him with another woman so he is uncomfortable with lesbian fantasies. How do you recommend I handle this?

Love, Adventurous

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Dear Adventurous,
Enjoy your fantasies, keep them all to yourself and be as adventurous as you like! 🙂 These are your private thoughts so unless your partner is a mind reader, go to town. I mean, I have sex with Justin Bieber and Channing Tatum in my mind all the time! 🙂
I have more questions though. Do you want to share your fantasies with him? (you can always share them with me!) 🙂 Is the sex getting boring? If the sex is great and you just have a wild imagination then go crazy!
Love Chilli xx

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