SHARE

Welcome to The Spice with Chilli Rox – a weekly advice corner from the sassiest seductress in the pole world. If you have a burning question you would like to ask Chilli, send it in an email to:

chillirox@auspoledancersmag.com.au

 

I feel like a failure...
I feel like a failure…

 

Dear Chilli,

I’ve been competing for 3 years. I’ve submitted entry videos for two comps this year and have been rejected for both. I can’t help but feel like a failure. This is the first time I’ve ever been rejected from competing. Do you have any advice to make me feel better?

Missing Out

 

***

Dear Missing Out,

Don’t you dare feel like that! You are brave, confident and highly motivated. Please don’t treat this as a fail, more just that you weren’t right for that comp – or maybe there were loads of girls who had a similar style etc. There are so many different factors when judging video entries, it’s never just about talent.

 

My advice is when you’re submitting a video entry, make sure the lighting is good, you are in costume, and you perform like there’s thousands of people watching. Give yourself the best chance to make it through. Also ask for feedback from the organisers, find out why you weren’t included if you can. That way you will have a better chance next time. Lastly, don’t give up! It’s your turn next I can feel it!

 

Love Chilli xx

 

What can I do about my smelly student?
What can I do about my smelly student?

 

Dear Chilli,

I teach a regular casual class which can get quite busy at times. I have a male student who regularly drops in to this class and a little while ago a couple of my other students complained to me about him smelling. Since they mentioned it, I’ve also noticed it – sometimes worse than others. It can get quite bad, especially in the heat. He is one of my most dedicated students and I’m really hesitant to say anything since I don’t want to embarrass him or lose him as a student. However, I’m also worried about the effect it’s having on my other students.

Have you ever been in this situation? Do you have any advice on how to handle this in the least confrontational way possible?

 

Smelly Dilemma

***

Dear Smelly Dilemma,

 

Yes I’ve been there and I have a solution. Grab a big pack of baby wipes and spray deodorant and as the students walk in say “Okay guys, we are working hard today, we are in a small space so let’s all get fresh!”.

 

It works! It’s fun, everyone has a giggle and it hopefully makes them more aware from then on. It worked for me, so give it a try!

 

Good luck,

 

Love Chilli xx
Should I try anal?
Should I try anal?

Dear Chilli,

Should i try anal? I always flinch when someone puts anything near my bum, but I’ve been told since I don’t like clit stuff I should try anal…. What are your thoughts?

Butt Curious

***

 

Dear Butt Curious,

 

Nothing ventured nothing gained! Remember it’s your body, your choice so only do it if you want to. Lots of women receive immense pleasure from anal while others find it painful and uncomfortable. If you decide you want to go for it I suggest a huge bottle of lube and optional wine 😉

 

Good luck,

 

Love Chilli xx

 

 

WANNA ASK CHILLI ROX?

Send your questions to chillirox@auspoledancersmag.com.au – if you are published you will win free access to Polesphere for a month! All questions are confidential.
SHARE
Previous articleIssue 13
Next articleSo You F***ed Up Your Comp Routine
APDM
Australian Pole Dancers Magazine - Check out our new Polesphere VIP Section!

LEAVE A REPLY